I’m still here…

Filed under:Everyday Life — posted by Ryan Bolger on August 13, 2007 @ 12:09 am

Hi — just a note to say I’m still alive! Spring quarter finished with some great students doing some wonderfully creative church plant projects. Ian Mobsby was his amazing self in his talk at Fuller in June. I taught an 80 hour two-week intensive on cultural analysis in late June for some really engaged D. Miss. students. After all this I crashed!! I’ve spent some time away with the family in July. Very much needed. I’m returning tomorrow to Fuller to teach a two-week intensive and will slowly be easing my way back into all things school. I haven’t taught the class before (don’t tell my students!) but inherited it from my respected friend and (former) colleague, Eddie Gibbs.   

I’ll try not to be too much of a stranger the rest of the summer…

The Emerging Church and Teenage Girls?

Filed under:Everyday Life — posted by Ryan Bolger on April 3, 2007 @ 3:00 am

Barry Taylor, Doug Pagitt and I had the opportunity to share dinner last month when Doug was here teaching with me at Fuller. For those who don’t know, Barry and Doug maybe have seven books between them on the emerging church (now or coming soon) and are two of the thinkers I respect most. The three of us had never spent time as a threesome so I was really looking to the cutting-edge emerging sorts of conversations we might have. We ordered our food and then got down to business. I started. What sort of question 270735030_b1a5049d0ecould I begin with to capture the moment? I would give it a try.

“Do either of you know how to raise teenage girls, because I’m going crazy. Everything I’ve known about parenting I’ve had to throw out the window.” This question came out before I even thought about it. It is the question I have asked every dad of a teenage girl I know; I was desperate and just blurted it out. I was one-year into this teenage thing, and to me, Barry and Doug were experts, each of them having logged three and four years in this realm respectively.

Instead of talking theory, something I can do endlessly, we spent the next hour trying to collectively figure out how to parent these new members of our households. Some of the things said to our daughters — “No more ‘just a minutes’!” “The cell phone didn’t work at your friend’s house?” “How are you doing your homework when six IM conversations are going on?” “Don’t you see that it is lying when you selectively only share a part of what

is happening, misleading me as to what is going on?” And on, and on…

What a riot — did we sound old or what! For the next hour we shared just about all we knew about parenting a teenage daughter (an hour was all we needed to reach that point). Barry summed up our greatest fears: “I’m beginning to sound just like my dad!” Before I knew it, our time was up — Barry needed to leave –

Instead of ‘reimagining’ all things church, we spent our evening on a topic much closer to home — trying to figure out these amazing young women in our lives. Not an entirely bad way to spend an evening…

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The Stretching of Social Space

Filed under:Culture, Everyday Life, Sacred/secular space — posted by Ryan Bolger on March 31, 2007 @ 8:45 am

I had already been up this morning, typing on the computer.  My nine year-old son came out from his bedroom and said “I miss Chris.” My son rarely expresses this kind of emotion, feelings reserved for cousins and very special friends. “I know, I miss him too. I thought he was really funny.”

Doesn’t sound that unusual, but the thing is, my son has never met Chris, at least physically. Chris Sligh was just voted off American Idol. We started watching the show a few weeks into the season this year,and we got hooked. In these past few episodes, my son felt connected to him, relating to him in a special way.

Chris_slighOne thing I talk about in my classes is how modernity stretches space. Many many years ago, the space we shared with people always meant the sharing of physical space. Over the few hundred year span of modernity, more and more of our social world dealt with those at a distance from us, either across the town or across the world. Moreover, many of these people with whom we connected we did not even know, in the face-to-face conventional sense.

As Christian leaders, we spend the bulk of our time thinking about serving those with whom we share physical space. However, if physically proximate space is the only sphere in which we think missiologically, we might leave much of our social world untouched and ’secular’. Missional thinking, if it is to recognize that ‘the earth is the Lord’s’ and thereby all realms are candidates for redemption, must increasingly focus on faceless relationships as well as the face-to-face, on American Idol as well as the relationships in the home…

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Back to Work…

Filed under:Everyday Life, Fuller — posted by Ryan Bolger on September 8, 2006 @ 8:43 am

Well, the kids are now back in school, thus officially ending ’summer’ for me. It was a great summer on which I hope to do some more reflecting…the Newbigin consultation & Blah tours on the EC front, andplay in England and Big Bear, CA with good friends and family. The home front included lots of play with the kids and coordinating our kitchen remodel.

Of course, the best part of the Newbigin consultation and blah were making some new relationships and developing others further. I learn so much from these people.

Coming up for me this fall? I’m writing a 21st century ‘take’ on Donald McGavran’s contribution. I’m doing this because I need to get my head around this guy, as I’m teaching through his material in Church Growth in October. I’m developing a class on ecclesiology with Doug Pagitt to be taught at Fuller next spring. I’m writing an article with J. Shawn Landres on the similarities between “Emergent Synagogues” and Emerging Churches. Finally I’m teaching a class on Transforming Contemporary Cultures. I taught this class last year, but I’m changing the material to emphasize the role of media. Over the summer, I’ve been influenced by British Cultural Studies, so this class will reflect that change. Finally, I’m supposed to be writing book 2  — tentatively on Jesus and culture, but, er, um, having a bit of trouble getting to it…Publish or perish is more of a guideline than a rule, right? :)

This post signifies my jumping back into a regular posting schedule — at least weekly, if not more. As I’m reflecting on the summer or jumping into these new projects, I’ll share some of my reflections. Cheers!

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On Summer Holiday

Filed under:Everyday Life, Travel — posted by Ryan Bolger on July 5, 2006 @ 9:47 pm

Between Newbigin Thinktank and blah… I’m on holiday with my family and some very good friends in Big Bear Lake, CA and Brighton, England,

July 1-July 13…I will return to the states on July 25 (after blah…) and will resume posting then.  If I can steal away some time, I will try to post during these breaks…Cheers…

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I did nothing over break — and loved it…

Filed under:Everyday Life — posted by Ryan Bolger on January 10, 2006 @ 6:43 am

First time in maybe six years I didn’t have a book deadline hanging over me at Christmas. Wow. Just hung out with Julie and my two kids for two weeks. We celebrated twelve days of Christmas — played lots of games, spent days in pajamas. Didn’t really go anywhere special. It felt like an end of year sabbath rest. I really needed this downtime to sloooowwwww dowwwwwnnnn….

Now on the other side of Epiphany, I’m looking forward to so many good things this year…

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At Home for the 12 Days of Christmas…

Filed under:Everyday Life — posted by Ryan Bolger on December 28, 2005 @ 10:56 pm

I’m enjoying the 12 days of Christmas cheer with the family — hope to chat with many of you in the New Year — I plan to ‘return’ (online) on the 9th of January…

Christmas peace,

Ryan

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The Hopeless (Obsessive?) Researcher

Filed under:Everyday Life — posted by Ryan Bolger on December 15, 2005 @ 9:08 pm

Well, my wife and I had the talk, and now that I am post-quarter (school), post-book, and post-dissertation, maybe I need to shift to pre-more-work-around-the-house…So we brainstormed and the laundry would lift the largest burden. So I am the laundry guy. The one who does the laundry. If its laundry in the house its me. I got it covered. My daughter, this morning, when she found no socks the right color, had to shift her ire to me as opposed to mom. Yep, this changes everything.

However, the story doesn’t stop there. You see I have a gift (read problem) that whatever I participate in, I need to know the history, the big picture, the players, the lay of the land. Why do we do such and such. You get the picture. Yes, I did it, and I know that I went over the top with this. I ordered several books on the history of laundry. And, yes, they exist. And I have them. In my library. You can’t borrow them until I’m done…

Expect Emerging Laundries to come out in 2007 — still looking for a publisher…

I really have issues.

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Jury Duty

Filed under:Everyday Life — posted by Ryan Bolger on May 31, 2005 @ 11:14 pm

I spent the entire day at the LA courthouse with maybe 200 others from every tribe and tongue waiting to be called to serve on a jury. Some read books, magazines, or newspapers, others tapped on their laptops, paced up the corridor, slept out on the benches, or kept track of their ’soaps’. I spent the day re-reading the ‘galleys’ the near final copies of our Emerging Churches book. I was quite unsociable and fairly zombie-like — the coffee did nothing…I did not feel like I ‘woke up’ until 1 or 2 — which is a little late even for me…

The day ended with a cheer when we realized we did not have to ’serve’ for at least another year — such a good feeling to hear my name as one of the many in the long list of names called out… that we avoided the call for the 15 and 30 day trials, and that we were indeed free…



image: detail of installation by Bronwyn Lace